The Shared Table: Finding Connection with Strangers in Baguio


Baguio City, with its cool climate and scenic views, has long been a haven for those seeking respite and inspiration. But beyond the bustling Session Road or the serene pine trails of Camp John Hay, a new kind of connection is quietly blossoming. It’s called “The Shared Table,” an initiative by a good friend of mine (Aris) that’s redefining how we meet, interact, and build community in the City of Pines.

The 1st Table at Xtremely Xpresso

The Shared Table isn’t a restaurant or a café; it’s an experience. Imagine stepping into a cozy, unassuming cafe, or discovering a charming restaurant you never knew existed. There, you’re greeted by a small group of strangers, all with the shared anticipation of a few hours of good food, engaging conversation, and genuine connection. This is the essence of The Shared Table – a series of intimate gatherings designed to transform strangers into companions, one meal and story at a time.

Table 008 at Yaletown Cafe


The inspiration for The Shared Table sprang from a fascinating concept: “TimeLeft,” a digital booking app about a “dinner with strangers”. The idea that a digital platform could facilitate such meaningful in-person interactions sparked a thought: what if we could replicate that magic, but with a uniquely Baguio flavor? The answer was to ditch the digital intermediary and lean into the inherent warmth and intimacy of shared physical space, carefully chosen to enhance connection rather than distract from it.

Table 002 at KoCo Cafe – the 1st Table I joined, where I got to meet 8 wonderful wonderful individuals.


Each Shared Table event is intentionally small, initially limited to six to eight participants (but has grown a little bigger in number the past tables). This ensures that everyone has a chance to speak, to be heard, and to truly engage. The venues are meticulously selected – not the usual crowded spaces, but cafes or restos with character, hidden gardens that offer a sense of privacy, or even artistic spaces that inspire contemplation. These settings act as a gentle backdrop, encouraging vulnerability and authentic interaction.

Good food at Table 009
The Secret Garden, a Baguio
resto that’s close to my heart (that’s why I joined this table)

Food, of course, plays a central role. It’s not just sustenance; it’s a catalyst for conversation. Imagine sharing a plate of locally sourced delicacies, or perhaps a comforting bowl of pasta, as stories begin to unfold. It’s about savoring not just the flavors on your plate, but also the rich tapestry of experiences shared around it.
What truly sets The Shared Table apart is its commitment to fostering a judgment-free environment.

Table 007 was a dinner at
Cafe Kafagway

In an increasingly polarized world, finding spaces where one can express thoughts and feelings without fear of criticism is invaluable. Here, diversity of opinion is welcomed, curiosity is encouraged, and empathy is the guiding principle. It’s a place where different perspectives can converge, leading to deeper understanding and unexpected friendships.

And sometimes, we show our most genuine smile to a person we just met.

As a Baguio local whose been quiet cracking in life lately, joining The Shared Table goes beyond the individual events. Yes, I already have a circle of friends here in our city but this experience offers a different way of weaving a stronger social fabric within Baguio. Having joined 3 tables now, I have noticed that participants often leave feeling refreshed, invigorated, and with a renewed sense of belonging. Some have found new friends, others have discovered collaboration opportunities, and many simply appreciate the rare chance to step away from their mundane life and connect with people on a deeper level.

The Shared Table at the
Ili-likha Artists’ Village

In a city known for its vibrant energy, The Shared Table offers a quiet counterpoint – a space for intentional connection, for rediscovering the joy of human interaction, and for building a community one heartfelt conversation at a time. So if you find yourself in Baguio seeking more than just sightseeing, keep an ear out for The Shared Table. You might just find your next companion, your next story, and a deeper sense of home.
***All photos in this write-up were captured by Lo (@contentcreatorph) and were grabbed from The Shared Table’s social media accounts. These photographs are beautiful depiction of the cozy, intimate gatherings at a Baguio café/restaurant reminiscent of The Shared Table experience.

@ Gypsy by Chef Waya
Coffee and Conversions at
Hatch Cafe
The 1st dinner potluck at a Baguio BnB
1st The Shared Table gathering outside Baguio City,
Itogon’s Cafe Stella
The Other Office

2 comments

  1. Thanks for the shoutout, Mark! Quick note: my handle is @contentcreatorph (no dot) for content creation. It was genuinely nice meeting you and I really value the collaboration that’s blossomed between us. Congrats again on the Made Here opening! See you around

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